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May. 14.

Self Loathing – Opinions – Your Opinion Of Yourself

Interesting conversation I had last night..you see someone close to me said something I took in an insulting way.  Their wise words, their wisdom..I don’t know it kinda stung and their poor choice of words didn’t help matters its as if I had to piece together a riddle and when I played back the conversation I think I knew what they meant…but did I…I wasn’t sure.

I had to ask, I mean this wonderful person would never insult intentionally….good thing I asked because after their explanation, I was right, the poor choice of words would have probably insulted anyone because what was said and what they meant were 2 different things.  I made a  comment so that I was repeating what they said based on my interpretation and it sounded  insulting,  I said it in a way that I was almost in agreement when truly I was clarifying the words in the conversation. When I did this rather than correct the way they expressed themselves…  they ever so kindly pointed out when you say it to yourself like that…its self loathing.  Although I found this to be an interesting twist in the conversation…. without a doubt it was profound for me and opened up my mind.

Let’s face it, opinions flow.. and they won’t always be good.  Reading, repeating and reliving someone else’s negative opinion of you..its very much like self talk..self hate and worse…self loathing..the best way to combat this…is remind yourself..its none of my business what others think about me.  Its their opinion not mine.

Build confidence and have courage to let these opinions roll off your back! When u place too much importance on what others say, you tend to lose a sense of self… When it comes to you….it’s your opinion that counts that truly matters..its you that you face in the mirror each day. Regardless of what other’s opinions are of you…you are unique…you are special…and you are beautiful…

Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise and do yourself a favor stop reliving the negative things that others say about you…its their mere mortal opinion….. Sometimes listening to some opinions and repeating and reliving what was said.. it can turn into self talk…self hate…and worse…self loathing.

As humans we have a tendency to value others opinions..and I do to a certain degree.  Why not put them in a place where they belong…far away from your Psyche…away from thoughts.  You only have one shot at life..are you gonna let someone’s mere mortal opinion stand in your way?

Part 1 of 90 days of inspirational messages.

 

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May. 10.

Get Quality Services At Infinity Car Dealers

The process of getting a car has become a very easy one these days. You are sure to get a second hand or a used car that is still in good shape. This same car is made available to you at a very affordable price. Why then would one choose to buy a new car that has the same features as a used one at a high price while both cars are in almost the same condition?

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Any infiniti dealer is tasked with having you needs met. If you are looking to buy a car, they are supposed to let you know what cars are available. They are supposed to let you know that you know that you have the option of buying a car straight from the factory or to buy a used car. They should explain the perks of buying each of these cars. The dealerships have a variety of models in their stock that you can buy. It is very easy to find a luxury vehicle that is used but still in good shape and is at half the price as the new one. For those who have old vehicles that they need to dispose of or no longer have use of, keeping them in the garage is not your only option.

Selling them privately is also not your only option. You can choose to have the vehicle sold to a car dealer. infiniti dealers will pay you once you agree on the price. They will not wait until someone has bought the car so they can pay you. This is a good way of disposing of the car because it would have otherwise been burnt and this is not good for the environment. It is also upon you to have a financial advisor present with you to negotiate the price so that you will be sure you have a good price for the car.

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Dec. 15.

Montana Moose Poop – Rest In Peace Clint Miller

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My most meaningful conversations with Clint Miller was never about real estate or business.  It was always about our families.  We had some things in common,  I raised boys and he has two, there was no doubt in my mind, Clint was a prankster, a joker and told it like it was.  I’ll tell you right now raising boys as a mother is not an easy job..I would do it again in a heart beat.  One thing we always had together was a lot of laughter, many pranks and yes, we all thought we were comedians.  I think it comes with the territory being a mother or father to sons.

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I cannot tell you how Clint Miller and I actually started talking but I do know he was one of my first twitter followers or at least one of the most memorable.  We rarely talked about business but about our sons, the fact he was from Montana and how my parents love it there!  We even joked about having the same last name. But my most memorable conversation was about Montana Moose Poop, a gift from my parents.

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The great thing about my parents when they went on their vacation adventures  is that they would always bring things back for us.  It has been a tradition since we were little kids.  So here is what those pranksters did…

So one year for Christmas my parents gave me a clear clear box and it appeared to look like chocolate but when I read the touristy box it said it was Montana Moose Poop. I thought to myself, yum raisinettes…my favorite but boy was I wrong.

I never took the time to read the box but I did open it and threw one in my mouth…it wasn’t raisinettes but little rocks that resemble moose poop.  My parents knew I would probably do that..I am lucky after biting down that I didn’t lose a tooth.  I told my parents..they laughed hearty and so did I.

When I first started chatting with @therealclint, I wanted to know so much about Montana because my parents loved it so much and I had never been. As silly as this sounds, I shared the story with Clint,we both wondered if his boys would fall for it. I had considered mailing it to him..but I never did..I think we decided chances were they would try to eat it!  Damn it twitter, I wish u had a timeline.

We continued to chat on twitter but my time on twitter dwindled down..too many social networks, too little time…I tuned out twitter for a bit…every now and then I would jump back on and say hello to Clint.  When he responded back..I felt pretty lucky..and it meant a lot..

Out of all the conversations I have had on twitter, this stuck out in my mind. It involved all the people that I loved because when I talked to Clint Miller he had that knack to get people to talk about what was important…life..family..and really living ..I always admired the man and I always knew he was an incredible father, husband and man.

I’ll miss Clint and I let him know just what his existence has meant to me..I didn’t have to talk to him everyday or be connected everywhere..because when he spoke the words meant something….and I made a promise to myself and to Clint…

“I want you to know…you have impacted many lives, including mine…..I won’t squander another day, hour or minute on the things that really aren’t that important..but what I will do is live life filled with love and joy.”

Every day I try….Its a tall order..life sometimes bring tears..I cry for his family and friends..

If Clint did one thing, he taught me there is more to life..its living it while you are here and being present and in the now. Your ticket could be up at any time..don’t waste time..use your time on the important stuff.  Living life and  impacting people and the legacy you leave behind. Everyone leaves a legacy impactful or not!

The loss of Clint Miller has deeply impacted me, maybe as I pay attention to my own mortality I find myself more aware of how I treat people and see life and try hard to do the right thing.

Clint Miller was the master at teaching lessons..boy he left a legacy not only did he live strong…the man knew how to live out loud!

To The Millers

Kids your dad was a wonderful man..he impacted many and he was so very loved!  He has touched many lives and lives in each and everyone one of us. Your dad loved you so!

The one thing I am sure of..with the legacy he left…. Clint Miller lives on. Truthfully the kind of guy Clint Miller was..not sure he would want to rest rest in peace.. but I will say it anyways…

Rest in peace Clint..I don’t know it sure doesn’t sound right.. the way I saw him…its more like Clint Miller lives on!  #weloveclint

 

 

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Oct. 23.

Life Goes On

It’s Saturday night and my head is filled with many things..so many things I have to write for myself so I can write for others..sounds weird I know but its the best way that I can express myself and it’s very therapeutic. And once its released, I usually end up feeling better.  Not only does my writer’s block disappear but it usually ends with me feeling better and left with a big smile . Relief and ready to move on to the next thing on the agenda.

Don’t worry, I’m not gonna hash out my dirty laundry but what I will tell you is that this year I turned 49 years old and its probably the most important time in my life, it’s truly the first time in my life that I have realized that no matter what happens, life goes on.

 

Don’t think I am sad I am just filled with clutter in my head, reminders of the past and a realization we humans waste so much time on silly things and so many times the silly things do not ever happen.   At 49, I am thinking about my mortality, looking ahead and what am I gonna do that is meaningful that is gonna fill some of the cracks that are deep in my heart.

 

We all have them you know, they are wounds we developed through the years from various stages of life.  Mistakes we made, the wrongs that occur, loves gained and loves lost, I think you get it, we all have cracks when we feel sadness, heart ache and/or suffering.  The old saying that time heals all wounds is somewhat true, after-all there are many joys in life.  The new joys, passions and moments of happiness will always help to heal some of those cracks in your heart.

 

We have to remember that no matter what life goes on regardless of how we feel.  That our time is limited here on earth regardless of your age.  I don’t know about you but time seems to fly by, I can’t believe that Christmas is around the corner again.   At 49 I feel like I don’t have much time left to stop and smell the roses, to watch the sun set or watch my sons become old men.  We just don’t know, do we?

There are three things I am 100% sure of when it comes to life, the first thing is to expect change, the 2nd what once lived will die and do I need to say it? Well think of it as a friendly reminder no matter what happens, Life goes on!  Do yourself a favor and starting living!

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Jan. 26.

Do You Think I am Sexy? My Bookmarks That Is

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